Community Resistance — Rebuilding Trust in an Age of Division
Part 3 of The Four Domains of Cultural Resistance. Community resistance turns neighbors into a network. Small customs, shared tools, and clear care make us findable and safer when things get loud.
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The Four Domains of Cultural Resistance series:
Read Part One, Narrative Resistance — Defending Truth and Memory
Read Part Two, Economic Resistance — Reclaiming the Means of Survial
The church basement smelled faintly of coffee and floor cleaner. Folding chairs faced a whiteboard where someone had listed flour, beans, paper, bus tokens, diapers. The room was ordinary, which made it easier to tell the truth.
“Could you coordinate the pantry schedule?” a neighbor asked Mara as the list turned from groceries to roles.
She checked her planner. Grades due Friday. Her mother’s appointment. Porch Light Potluck for an hour on Sunday. She looked back at the board.
“I cannot hold the schedule,” she said, steady and kind. “I can host one hour each week, and I can keep the Blockline, our block text thread, updated.”
Anita nodded and wrote two other names beside Schedule. The room exhaled.
On the bus home, Mara wrote a line in Recipes for Freedom: “A small yes that can last is better than a promise I can’t keep.”
Community resistance is one of the four domains in the cultural resistance framework introduced in What Are We Supposed to Do? (Community Edition). It is the practice of building trust, visibility, and shared routines so people can survive together when systems wobble.
Begin where you are, with what you have, at a scale you can keep.
Community resistance is the deliberate creation of mutual visibility, mutual reliability, and mutual repair at human scale.
Mutual visibility: we can find each other.
Mutual reliability: we keep promises to each other.
Mutual repair: we fix damage quickly and with care.
This work happens in doorways, lobbies, stoops, library tables, faith halls, and low-tech group texts. It is scheduled care. It is a practice you can put on a calendar. You can see it in small customs: after a storm, a quiet card slipped under doors; a different team of parents each week guiding a walking school bus at seven thirty; a monthly repair night in the library community room.
Mara taped a small card by the mailboxes: Need help / Can help. Sundays 6–7 on the stoop. Below it, two neighbors added first names and a check mark. The hallway felt lighter.
Roles are capacities, not titles. Choose (or come up with) what you can keep.
Greeter. Learn names and keep opt-in contacts for the floor or block.
Connector. Start a small text thread with quiet hours and clear norms.
Host. Hold a regular hour when people know where to find you.
Maintainer. Tend shared things, like a tool shelf or little pantry.
Trust keeper. Protect consent, accessibility, and resolve conflict.
Mara circled Host and Connector. She erased Coordinator. The page looked smaller. It also looked possible. She wrote at the bottom, “start where you can stay.”
Neighbor-to-Neighbor (Low Risk)
Write down the names of five neighbors or members of your community and tell them one way they can reach you during a specific hour this week. Then, post a simple card near your door or mailbox: Need help / Can help. Gather an email address or phone number and promise not to share it.
Objective: Establish mutual visibility.
Steps: choose an hour and place, set a contact method, post the card, tell two people.
Ethical note: Opt-in only. Do not share anyone’s information without consent.
Neighborhood Potluck (Moderate)
Host a 60-minute story potluck. Bring something small to share. End by choosing one repeating routine, such as a monthly swap, a shared ride list, or winterization day.
Objective: Create a recurring community custom.
Steps: pick a place, set one hour, write a simple agenda on scrap paper, end with the next date and a shared task.
Ethical note: Ensure access: seating and mobility (stairs/elevator), lighting, language/translation, childcare, and dietary clarity; obtain consent for photos; post a simple code of care.
How Do You Practice Community Resistance?
Low risk
Hallway hello map with first names and preferred contact.
Library book club hour so people know where to find you.
Storm-day door cards that say “Checked on you at (time)” and “See you tomorrow.”
Moderate
Tool shelf or repair night in a lobby or garage.
Language exchange or homework table at a set time, and provide translated cards or signage for events.
Childcare or elder checklists with a simple calendar.
Higher commitment
Walking school bus with a set route and two adults.
Building guidelines for inclusion and safety.
Community mediation circle with a trained facilitator.
Everyday
Community resistance starts where you are with what you have, and it does not always require much planning. These simple daily practices can take effort, especially for those of us who find social time challenging. (We will add strategies for introverts later.) These small steps can build a stronger sense of community for you and for your neighbors.
Walk your block once this week and greet two neighbors by name.
Show up briefly at one neighborhood event like a library hour, park, market, or community center, even if you can only stay five minutes.
Learn and use the names of the people who work in your neighborhood.
Risk and Reflection
Privacy and consent. Only opt-in contacts. No public posting of numbers. No photos without permission.
Boundaries. Findable does not mean available at all hours. Publish a specific hour. Rotate hosts.
Power dynamics. Invite voices most affected by decisions. Avoid savior postures.
Escalation. Know when a problem needs professionals or emergency services.
Post a simple safety line: who to contact, when to pause the gathering, and where to meet if plans change.
Before leaving the basement, Mara updated the Blockline. Porch Light Potluck set for Sunday at six. Bring something to share. Two quick thumbs-up appeared.
WOOP — A 5-Minute Planning Tool
What it is
WOOP stands for Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan. Developed in behavioral science as “mental contrasting” paired with “if–then” planning, it helps you keep small commitments when real life gets noisy.
When to use it
Use WOOP to protect a weekly routine, to add a new practice, or when an opportunity appears and you need to avoid burnout.
How to WOOP
Wish: name a short, specific, feasible wish.
Outcome: note the benefits and how you will feel when it happens.
Obstacle: name the most likely obstacles (fatigue, distraction, schedule).
Plan: for each obstacle, write an if–then plan you can act on this week.
Mara’s WOOP
Wish: Host Porch Light Potluck for one hour this Sunday 6–7.
Outcome: Neighbors can find each other. I feel less alone. We enjoy delicious food.
Obstacle: I am often too tired after grading to host on Sunday.
Plan: If I feel spent by Saturday afternoon, then I will text the Blockline to move the hour to Monday 6–7 or ask Sam to host.
What’s your wish?
When you get your wish, what do you want the outcome to be?
What obstacles do you see getting in the way of your wish’s outcome?
What’s your plan for negotiating those obstacles?
Daily Reflections & Pivots
Still not sure where to begin, or looking for a way to listen more deeply? Community resistance is rhythm, not reaction. Beginning often means pausing long enough to notice who is near and what they need. The goal is not to be busy. It is to make sure your signal endures. When you do not know where to start, start by asking questions.
Daily Reflection: Who did I greet by name today, and what changed after that contact?
This practice lowers isolation and builds trust you can draw on later.
Weekly Pivot: Where can I be reliably found or reliably contacted for one hour this week, and who can I invite to share that hour with me next time?
This turns intention into routine and spreads labor across the circle.
Bread & Meaning
That night, after hearing about a new project at work she does not want to decline, Mara wondered how to carry the load without burning out. She opened her journal and wrote at the top: My Practice. Below it she sketched five headings with blank space beneath each: Community, Mindfulness, Wisdom, Creation, Health. She listed a few things.
Community: Porch Light Hour, Sundays 6–7, 60 minutes — connected, steady.
Creation: Bake bread on Saturday, about 2 hours — nourished, purposeful.
Health: Walk after dinner, 15 minutes — lighter, clearer.
Mindfulness (needs work): Doomscroll in bed, 25 minutes — anxious, wired.
At the bottom of the page she summarized the first three domains in one line each:
Narrative: Keep truth from vanishing; remember and retell with care.
Economic: Reroute small flows toward neighbor survival.
Community: Schedule care so trust can repeat.
Mara closed the notebook and said to herself, “that’s enough for tonight.”
On Sunday evening, the stoop lights were on. A folding table held the food; another held a bus pass envelope and a sign-up sheet. Anita traded bread for a ride to a night shift. The librarian brought spare notebooks. Two neighbors took the pantry schedule.
Mara kept her one hour and the Blockline. She added two new contacts to Recipes for Freedom and wrote, “Next Sunday, same hour.” She could feel the work asking for steadiness. Habits that protect sleep, attention, and care for next week’s hour. The work was smaller than the need. It was also steadier than last week.
Small numbers. Large meaning.
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Source Acknowledgements
This essay is adapted from our field guide What Are We Supposed to Do? Practicing Cultural Resistance (Community Edition), which contains full source citations for historical, cultural, and factual references.